Therapy for Gen Z, Millennials, and everyone in between.
Rooted in relationship, curiosity, and care. Thoughtful support that honors your complexity—and helps you feel more like you.
Alexis Renko, MA, MHC-LP
Hi, I’m Alexis!
First, everyone is welcome here.
It’s an honor to do this work and to sit with people from all walks of life. My practice is a space where all genders, races, cultures, sexual orientations, body sizes, abilities, and belief systems are respected and affirmed. Whoever you are, however you show up—you’re welcome.
I believe that healing begins when we’re given the space to listen inward. So often, the insight we need is already within us—it just hasn’t had the chance to speak. In my practice, I offer a warm, collaborative space where you can slow down, reflect, and reconnect with your inner voice.
As a “Zillennial”—someone who sits between Gen Z and Millennial—my in-between-ness is a meaningful part of my clinical identity. I understand firsthand what it’s like to straddle cultural shifts, access new language around identity, and grapple with changing ideas about mental health, relationships, and purpose. This generational lens helps me connect with a wide range of clients navigating transitions, uncertainty, or a sense of not quite fitting the mold. I bring that same sense of nuance and openness into the therapy room, honoring complexity rather than rushing to fix or define.
I work with teens and adults in New York navigating questions of identity, life transitions, anxiety, and the lingering impact of trauma. I welcome each client’s creativity and spirituality into the room as powerful resources in the healing process. My practice is rooted in anti-oppressive values and shaped by an understanding of the larger systems—family, culture, society—that influence how we move through the world.
I know that starting therapy can feel intimidating—especially when it means sharing parts of yourself that feel tender, confusing, or even painful. That’s why the foundation of my work is relationship. I aim to offer a space where you feel seen, supported, and never rushed. Together, we’ll go at a pace that feels right for you, building trust over time. Therapy doesn’t have to feel clinical or cold—it can be a place of warmth, curiosity, and genuine connection.
Outside the therapy room, I love being outdoors with my dog, catching live music, and exploring the city with people I love.
Credentials
Master of Arts in Clinical Mental Health Counseling, Lesley University, Cambridge, MA
Professional Permit - Mental Health Counseling, NY State Education Department, Office of the Professions
Verified by Psychology Today, Supervised by Lindsey Pratt, LMHC (New York / 008170)
Certificate in Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Medical University of South Carolina
Specialties
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Trauma has a way of shaping us into someone we never meant to be. It can cloud our sense of self, make us feel small, guarded, or disconnected from who we really are. Over time, this can show up as anxiety, numbness, people-pleasing, or a deep sense that something’s missing—even if you can’t name what. My approach is rooted in compassion and curiosity, helping you gently reconnect with the parts of yourself that had to go quiet to survive. Together, we’ll work to rebuild trust with yourself and create space for authenticity, clarity, and real healing.
In our work together, I take a holistic and compassionate approach, helping you explore not just what happened, but how you're carrying it now. We’ll move at your pace as we tend to the emotional, relational, and somatic impacts of trauma, with care, curiosity, and collaboration.
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Our earliest relationships shape how we see ourselves, how we connect, and how safe we feel with others. If you find yourself stuck in painful relational patterns, struggling with trust or self-worth, or feeling disconnected from those you care about, you’re not alone—and it makes sense. In relationship therapy, we explore the relational wounds and messages you’ve carried, from family dynamics to cultural conditioning, and how those may be impacting your connections today.
Whether you’re navigating romantic, familial, or platonic relationships, or simply want to build a more compassionate relationship with yourself, our work together can support you in creating deeper, more authentic connections.
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Spirituality is one of my deepest passions as a therapist because it connects to some of the most profound human experiences we all share. Through the lens of existential therapy, I help clients explore universal truths like death, freedom, isolation, and the search for meaning—topics that often arise in spiritual journeys. These experiences can feel overwhelming or isolating, but they are a natural part of being human. Embracing this shared humanity allows us to normalize those feelings and find greater clarity and peace in the questions that matter most. Whether your path includes spirituality, questioning, or a secular worldview, all identities and beliefs—including atheism and agnosticism—are welcome and fully embraced in my practice.
Faith transitions & religious deconstruction
Many people experience a profound shift in their beliefs that can bring both relief and confusion. I provide a supportive space to explore these changes at your own pace, helping you make sense of your evolving worldview without judgment.
Healing from spiritual abuse or religious trauma
If you’ve endured control, manipulation, or harm within a religious context, the wounds can run deep. Together, we work to process that pain, rebuild your sense of safety, and reclaim your personal power and voice.
Exploring new forms of spirituality or meaning
Spirituality can be a deeply personal journey, unique to each individual. Whether you’re seeking new practices, philosophies, or connections, I’m here to support your exploration and help you discover what resonates with your authentic self.
Supporting LGBTQ+ clients in unpacking faith and identity
Unpacking faith and LGBTQ+ identity is often a complicated and personal journey that doesn’t always mean finding easy answers or reconciliation. I’m here to provide a caring, judgment-free space where you can honestly explore your feelings, honor your truth, and heal at your own pace.
Reconstruction
After deconstructing, it’s common to realize that some of the choices we make are still influenced by our upbringing—sometimes as a way to rebel against it. Leaving a high-demand religion can feel like your life’s mission is to become everything it once told you that you couldn’t be. Part of the reconstruction process is developing self-awareness about the motivations behind your decisions and learning to make choices that truly reflect who you are. This phase can also be incredibly freeing, fun, and deeply connecting as you build a new path that feels authentic and fulfilling.
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As a queer therapist, I find deep joy and meaning in working with queer-identified individuals and couples. I offer an affirming space to explore the layered complexities of identity, relationships, and selfhood—especially as they intersect with societal expectations, cultural narratives, and internalized messages.
Whether you're navigating coming out, gender exploration, family dynamics, or simply seeking a therapist who gets it, you're welcome here.
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Every romantic partnership can benefit from therapy at one point or another, ideally sooner rather than when things feel too late. Studies show that utilizing couples therapy as a preventative measure rather than a “last resort” improves relationships.
Whether you're navigating conflict, shifting roles, disconnection, or big life transitions, I offer a supportive space to explore your relationship dynamic with care, honesty, and curiosity. I work collaboratively with partners to better understand patterns, improve communication, and reconnect with what matters most to you as a couple.
I’m especially passionate about working with queer and nontraditional relationships. I recognize that queer partnerships often exist outside the templates many of us were given—and that can be both liberating and challenging. My approach is affirming, non-judgmental, and grounded in an understanding of the cultural, familial, and systemic pressures that shape how we show up in relationship. Whether you’re seeking to deepen intimacy, set boundaries, heal from rupture, or simply feel more aligned together, I’m here to help you navigate the journey with care and intention.
My Approach
At the core of my work is a deep belief that you are not broken—you’re human. I offer a warm, nonjudgmental space where all parts of you are welcome, including the ones that feel messy, stuck, or hard to love.
I draw from a blend of therapeutic modalities and frameworks, including humanistic, psychodynamic, relational, narrative, and parts work (IFS), which means I’ll support you in exploring your inner world with curiosity rather than criticism. Together, we’ll untangle old stories, meet the different parts of you with compassion, and work toward greater self-understanding and healing.
Clients who work with me often say they feel deeply seen, supported, and more connected their authentic selves. Whether you're navigating depression, identity questions, life transitions, or relationship challenges, I’ll meet you with open-mindedness, honesty, and care. I’m not here to fix you or give you all the answers—I’m here to support and walk alongside you as you reconnect with your own voice, strength, and clarity.
Therapy with me is collaborative, relational, and always tailored to you.
FAQ’s
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My fees range from $190-250 based on income, availability, and appointment type. I offer a sliding fee scale based on annual income for clients who experience financial hardship. If you feel this applies to you, mention it when you reach out!
You have the right to request a Good Faith Estimate under the No Surprises Act, and one will be provided to you upon scheduling. Please call for more information.
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I am not in-network with any insurance companies. However, some people have more out-of-network benefits than they realize when it comes to mental health!
I recommend prospective clients call the number on the back of their insurance card and ask if your plan includes “out-of-network” coverage for mental health. If so, I will send you a monthly superbill for insurance reimbursement.
You also have the option to utilize Mentaya, a service that submits claims on your behalf and simplifies the process of getting reimbursed. I'm happy to help walk you through the process!
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I offer in-person sessions at our cozy, accessible office space in Herald Square Monday-Wednedsay.
I also offer virtual therapy for anyone located in New York with flexible availability. Sessions are conducted on a HIPAA compliant platform.
Individual sessions are 50 minutes in length unless otherwise specified.
Therapy yields the most consistent results when started on a weekly basis. Sometimes stepping frequency up or down may be recommended on a case-by-case basis.
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In an Emergency? Please call 911 or 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) or visit your local hospital.
Domestic Violence Hotline - 1-800-799-SAFE
Eating Disorder Hotline - 1-800-931-2237
Sexual Assault Hotline - 1-800-656-4673
LGBTQIA Support- 866-488-7386
Let’s work together! I’d be honored to connect.
Reach out to schedule your free phone consultation.
Address
875 6th Avenue, Suite 2300, New York, NY 10001
Email
alexis@intuitivehealingnyc.com
Phone
(857)-361-2823